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HOW TO OVERCOME RESENTMENT AND CHANGE DIFFICULT DYNAMICS

Is resentment holding you back? What can you do to change the situation in a constructive and empowering way? Years ago, when I was adapting to the nuances of the English language, I asked a friend “Do you say: “to bear a grudge or ‘to bear grudge’?” (i.e. without the ‘a’)  His answer: “It depends […]

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Guilt, Conflict and the Drama Triangle of Persecutor, Rescuer and Victim

  Most of us are familiar with guilt; be it through a feeling of wrongdoing, or as a driver for something we ‘ought’ to do. When either of these experiences takes hold the result is a cocktail of resentment, blame and power struggles. If our reaction is to: attack, or rescue and placate, or take […]

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